Comments on: Hanging with the unemployed… http://www.midlifecrisisqueen.com/2009/04/25/ask-for-exactly-what-you-want/ Fri, 10 Feb 2012 13:28:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Laura Lee aka the Midlife Crisis Queen http://www.midlifecrisisqueen.com/2009/04/25/ask-for-exactly-what-you-want/comment-page-1/#comment-573 Laura Lee aka the Midlife Crisis Queen Mon, 11 May 2009 19:07:52 +0000 http://midlifecrisisqueen.com/?p=3500#comment-573 Yes, the way Dr. Phil puts it: <strong>"The most you will get out of life is what you ask for."</strong> I've decided to ask for LOTS MORE!!! And EXACTLY want I want this time! I can hardly wait!!! Laura Lee Yes, the way Dr. Phil puts it: “The most you will get out of life is what you ask for.” I’ve decided to ask for LOTS MORE!!! And EXACTLY want I want this time! I can hardly wait!!!

Laura Lee

]]> By: @CuriousDina http://www.midlifecrisisqueen.com/2009/04/25/ask-for-exactly-what-you-want/comment-page-1/#comment-572 @CuriousDina Mon, 11 May 2009 15:19:40 +0000 http://midlifecrisisqueen.com/?p=3500#comment-572 Asking for what you want is a liberating, empowering idea. Like you, many wonderful things have come to me because I was willing to admit having a desire and asking others to help me achieve it. However, after many years as a mediator helping people solve problems, I realized many folks can't ask. They worry about being indebted. They worry about being embarrassed. They even worry about getting exactly what they want...and not liking it. Whether it's your marriage, your career, or gifts, my grandma's advice is still true: If you don't ask, you don't get. Love=Fun Dina http://www.thismarriagething.com Asking for what you want is a liberating, empowering idea. Like you, many wonderful things have come to me because I was willing to admit having a desire and asking others to help me achieve it.

However, after many years as a mediator helping people solve problems, I realized many folks can’t ask. They worry about being indebted. They worry about being embarrassed. They even worry about getting exactly what they want…and not liking it.

Whether it’s your marriage, your career, or gifts, my grandma’s advice is still true:

If you don’t ask, you don’t get.

Love=Fun

Dina
http://www.thismarriagething.com

]]> By: Meet the Blogging Boomers | Fabulous After 40 http://www.midlifecrisisqueen.com/2009/04/25/ask-for-exactly-what-you-want/comment-page-1/#comment-571 Meet the Blogging Boomers | Fabulous After 40 Sun, 10 May 2009 13:55:40 +0000 http://midlifecrisisqueen.com/?p=3500#comment-571 [...] Want to know what the Midlife Crisis Queen learned from spending a day hanging with the unemployed?  She learned the importance of asking for exactly what you want! [...] [...] Want to know what the Midlife Crisis Queen learned from spending a day hanging with the unemployed?  She learned the importance of asking for exactly what you want! [...]

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