Comments on: Welcome to “middlescence” http://www.midlifecrisisqueen.com/2008/09/23/welcome-to-middlescence/ Fri, 10 Feb 2012 13:28:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Rori Raye http://www.midlifecrisisqueen.com/2008/09/23/welcome-to-middlescence/comment-page-1/#comment-304 Rori Raye Wed, 24 Sep 2008 00:18:28 +0000 http://midlifecrisisqueen.wordpress.com/?p=649#comment-304 Oh - this is wonderful! I always wanted to be a writer. I always loved helping people. And it wasn't until about 3 years ago that I discovered I could write, help people - and make a great living all at the same time...it's amazing what you can do when you stop worrying about the "how" and focus instead on your "dream." As soon as I found myself enjoying the action steps, and then doing more of the action steps I enjoyed, things just sort of took shape...and there I was. Not exactly what happened with my marriage though - I had to basically turn around everything I thought I knew and everything anyone was telling me - including therapists - to discover how romance and relationships with men really work...to feel strong on my inside and let myself be soft on my outside...and just sit back and marvel at how my marriage did a 180 so fast. Look forward to reading more of your lovely thoughts, Rori Oh – this is wonderful! I always wanted to be a writer. I always loved helping people. And it wasn’t until about 3 years ago that I discovered I could write, help people – and make a great living all at the same time…it’s amazing what you can do when you stop worrying about the “how” and focus instead on your “dream.” As soon as I found myself enjoying the action steps, and then doing more of the action steps I enjoyed, things just sort of took shape…and there I was.

Not exactly what happened with my marriage though – I had to basically turn around everything I thought I knew and everything anyone was telling me – including therapists – to discover how romance and relationships with men really work…to feel strong on my inside and let myself be soft on my outside…and just sit back and marvel at how my marriage did a 180 so fast.

Look forward to reading more of your lovely thoughts, Rori

]]>