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I didn’t get around to this idea until after the spirit crushing experience of my divorce. It took a good long time to rise again after that blow and I decided to discover more about the issues that made this such a difficult time for me, in hopes that I could avoid the experience ever coming my way again. I did discover those “patterning” messages from long ago that I was still acting out, hoping to finally get it “right” so others would accept me and Love me as I am. I decided it no longer served my best interests to subscribe to someone else’s idea of acceptability and have moved on to define it for myself. Life is working far better for me now.
My friend, Oriah Mountain Dreamer wrote a nice piece about Life tittled “The Invitation”. The last line speaks to this maturity.
Peace
Brad
Very interesting…It’s hard to value yourself, I had to experience the coldness of people who didn’t care about me, and establish a relationship with somebody who treated me like a stranger when I gave her my heart, to finally realize what I’m able to give, that what I have inside of me is very special, and not all people value it.
I’m 23 now, maybe I’m not midlife, but, thanks for sharing these words with us, sorry if my English is a bit strange, but my primary language is Spanish.
Freedom:
Thanks for reading and commenting on my posts! I’m so glad you have learned your own value as a person. The younger you can do that the better! Please keep reading and learning to love yourself and live with self-respect.
Laura Lee