What to do if you feel like a midlife loser

by midlifecrisisqueen on July 2, 2008

This essay can be found among many others in:

Feel like a loser?  What to do when you don’t have a clue.

Are you ready to feel better about yourself?  Than you’ve come to the right place!  This inexpensive, useful e-book is full of stories and suggestions on how to stop feeling like a loser, and move on to life changer.

I should know, I’m the Midlife Crisis Queen!  But even the Queen needs to eat.  Please consider the purchase of my new e-book.   It comes in all formats!

{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }

BearNaked July 2, 2008 at 3:17 pm

What an inspirational post.
I especially like this: “Decide what you must have before you die, to feel good about your life.”

midlifecrisisqueen July 2, 2008 at 5:08 pm

Thanks BearNaked! I remember I had to get majorly scared, frustrated, and angry before I was willing to start changing things in my life! -The Queen

owl49 August 8, 2008 at 3:10 am

Stumbled onto your site…this post to be exact while doing as you put it, a google “midlife loser” search.
Thank you…it was just what I needed to hear.

midlifecrisisqueen August 8, 2008 at 8:33 pm

Thank you! That’s exactly the reason why I write this blog.

The Queen

Paul June 3, 2009 at 2:41 pm

That’s about the most uplifting thing I’ve read in a while, very well said:)

Laura Lee June 3, 2009 at 4:40 pm

Thank you Paul, I do what I can. Please consider my book Midlife Magic for more support in midlife.

-Laura Lee

pat August 29, 2009 at 3:58 pm

Queenie! thanks for your article. i’ve been going through these emotions. developed a drinkin and smokin habit as a result of my workplace–which began sabotaging my down time and personal life. for 10 years, livin contract by contract, year by year…well its ending soon. and when it ends, first priority: get healthy; next: take a risk to realize a dream.

midlifecrisisqueen August 29, 2009 at 6:29 pm

Good Luck going after what you really want Pat!
Wake up everyday and say: “What do I want to happen today?” and ask for EXACTLY what you want! You CAN change your life!

-Queenie!

SkinGirl September 7, 2009 at 8:42 pm

It would be nice to turn this in to a meeting place for people who have no idea how to get started.

midlifecrisisqueen September 7, 2009 at 8:46 pm

Hey SkinGirl! Tell me more about how that would work…
Laura Lee

mark thornley July 8, 2010 at 4:39 pm

I feel like such a loser. I really don’t like myself very much at all, but for some reason that is not enough to motivate me to change. I think that the feeling, my feelings are the result of an issue with my brain chemistry. I don’t really know how long ago I started feeling like this, but it has certainly been many-many years since I felt good about myself for more than a few minutes. I constantly seem to find ways to fail, i joke about the Redskins snatching defeat from the jaws of victory, but that is the way I feel about myself most of the time.

midlifecrisisqueen July 8, 2010 at 4:46 pm

Sorry to hear you feel so bad. You might consider taking a peek at my new book. I wrote it to help! – Laura Lee

Leave a Comment

Previous post:

Next post: